This patch addresses issues with inability to define and create a new
database from scratch from configs, as well as invalid definition of
database links that required them to contain "/" character.
I shamefully ended up doing another mega-commit, because a lot of things
needed to be redone at once and it was easier that way on me. No one
really consistently tracks what I'm doing with these commits anyway.
This adds a whole bunch of code to deal with proper clean up for Acedia,
so it doesn't crash on map change and also replaces old event/listener
system with new signals/slots one.